I am so sorry - RL does that sometimes. Take your time and know that we are all here for you!! **hug**
I'm sorry for your ... ovaries. (I think we can use them) We'll wait.
Well I don't know about stones, but as a lesbian friend of mine; we were both posties back in the 90s, said to me after I was on the end of some homophobic 'humour'...

"Well, you know, a dick is just a clit with an oversized ego."


Goddess go with you,
'tis ok to be Takei,